This really appears to be one of those “here we go again”
moments. I had a hard time coming up with a title for this post because this new ordeal is so mind-boggling. When I was incarcerated at
Putnamville Correctional Facility, my Indiana criminal appellate lawyer began
taking measures to help reunite me with my daughters. He found Dr. D. Mark Snelson, M.D., a
psychiatrist from Indianapolis, and obtained prior approval from Judge Ted Todd
that Snelson could evaluate me. (For
those new to my story, in August 2009, Judge James D. Humphrey terminated my
parenting time with my 3 and 5 year old daughters, until I underwent a
psychological evaluation to determine I was not a potential danger to anyone. I underwent an evaluation in October 2009,
but could not get a court date to have the evaluator approved until November
24, 2010; over a year later. Judge Todd
denied that psychiatrist because he wasn’t pre-approved.) My lawyer checked around and came up with Dr.
Snelson. Per the Court’s order, Snelson’s
job was to determine if I posed a potential risk to my daughters, their mother,
or myself so that I may then participate in supervised visitation with my girls
under the supervision of another mental health provider. My lawyer and Snelson agreed that Snelson
would meet with me in prison to expedite the process of being reunited with my
daughters. I had my doubts about being
evaluated by anyone in Indiana given my experiences with the Indiana Courts but
I was talked into ignoring my “paranoia” and going ahead and meeting with
Snelson. I mean, lightening couldn’t
strike twice, could it? Bang.
Judge Humphrey terminated my parenting time for exactly what
I am doing in this blog post. One lawyer
advised me not to post this because it could be perceived as me attacking
everyone I run across in the court system.
As a reader, I ask you to decide if this is worthy of public criticism. Read
the letter of Dr. D. Mark Snelson, dated February 12, 2014. Snelson met with me at Putnamville for 1 ½ hours
on August 20, 2013. He then recommended
I undergo a thorough psychological evaluation with psychologist Dr. “Chris.” (“Chris” is the first name of the
psychologist. I was going to go with “Dr.
C” but I did not want people to confuse the psychologist with Dr. Connor. I underwent a battery of psychological
testing and was interviewed on several occasions by Dr. Chris. Dr. Chris was very professional and his fees
were what I believe to be very acceptable.
Dr. Chris issued an evaluation opining I was not a danger and could have
unsupervised visitation with my daughters.)
Snelson claims to have performed a psychiatric evaluation of me as
requested by the Court. He also alleges
he conducted an extensive review or the court records from my criminal trial in
October 2011. In all, he wrote 237
words; the last 16 being “I you have
further questions, please feel free to contact me at the above listed number.”
The
fee for this 237 word “psychiatric evaluation”: $3,692. And who did Dr. Snelson address this letter
to? Judge James D. Humphrey.
Before the few detractors start crying about me not agreeing
with professionals who do not side with me, take a close look at Dr. Snelson’s
237 word letter/report. There is no
recommendation. The first thing to note
is he addressed the letter to Judge James D. Humphrey who hasn’t presided over
my case since June 2009. Snelson would
have known this if he would have actually reviewed any records. Snelson referred me to a psychologist for an
extensive evaluation (which cost $3,700) yet never mentions reviewing the
evaluation; just phone consultations with Dr. Chris. Snelson wrote “[Supervised visitation] was agreeable
to Mr. Brewington as his stated goal was ‘my job is to prove I'm not going to
become a danger and get visitation of my girls’!” Read that sentence aloud, then read it aloud
again. My high school English teacher Mrs.
Z (to whom I am eternally grateful!), would crucify me for that type of
sentence structure. I couldn’t even imagine
what she would have done if she paid me $3,692 to write something so ridiculous.
Snelson then states he did not have the
opportunity to meet with me or my daughters after my release from prison. Interviewing the children was not part of the
order and why would he need further interviews with me when the evaluation of
the psychologist Snelson referred me to states I was not a danger to the
children. So Snelson writes a letter
addressed to Judge Humphrey with no professional recommendations and ends the
letter with “I you have further
questions, please feel free to contact me at the above listed number.” To put some perspective on how alarming this
is, imagine what would happen if an expert ballistics witness in the trial of
George Zimmerman just told the judge in the case to give him a call if he had
any questions.
Before going any further,
I do want to clarify that Snelson’s evaluation did not actually cost $3,692. The price tag was actually $2,692. The extra grand came when Snelson scheduled
an appointment to meet with me at the prison without notifying my lawyer or me. When he finally told my lawyer about
scheduled appointment, my lawyer told Snelson I was not ready to meet with
him. Snelson charged $1,000 to cancel
because it was past the allotted time frame to cancel appointments. Snelson set up an appointment to see me, failed
to tell my lawyer or me about the appointment until the day before, and then
charged $1,000 because Snelson wasn’t given advanced notice of the cancellation. (I wasn’t made aware of this until
recently. I would not have gone through
any evaluation with someone exhibiting questionable ethics at the onset of the
evaluation process.) After already
paying roughly $7,400 for the evaluation process, Snelson tries to extort more
money by trying to schedule more evaluations with me and my daughters before he
could determine if I was safe enough to pay another mental health professional
to supervise visitation per the current court order. When my lawyer questioned the additional
sessions and informed Snelson the order did not include an evaluation of my
children, Snelson wrote a letter to a judge who hasn’t presided over my case in
nearly 4 years.
This is why I write.
This is why Joe Sorge made the documentary Divorce Corp. How often does professional misconduct on the
part of mental health professionals in custody proceedings occur when it’s
happened to me twice? To any detractors
I ask, how is this my fault? Sure I
could have gone through more evaluations.
I’m sure someone could have dragged my kids from Cincinnati, Ohio to
Indianapolis, Indiana for evaluations.
That would have cost another $8,000-$10,000. Then I would have to pay another few thousand
to cover the costs of a mental health professional to supervise
visitation. So in order to determine I
am not a potential danger to my children and capable of unsupervised parenting
time, (as always I like to remind people that there were never any reports of
abuse, neglect, etc., and Dr. Connor recommended liberal parenting time in his
testimony during my divorce) Dr. Snelson believes I should have to spend
somewhere in the range of $20,000 to become an “unrestricted” parent once
again. (Please note the $20,000 estimate
could soar if my ex-wife forces me to subpoena all of these professionals to
appear in court to prove I am not going to be a potential danger to
anyone.) Rulings in family courts, like
Judge Humphrey’s, turn parents into chum that are thrown in shark infested
waters. All the mental health
professionals have to do is state they want to be super-duper sure the children
are safe and the sky is the limit. (Once
again I want to reiterate the professionalism of “Dr. Chris” and his fair
billing and am in no way lumping him in with unscrupulous individuals like Dr.
Connor and Dr. Snelson.) Judge Humphrey
took away my children because I criticized Dr. Connor on the internet. Humphrey testified to this in my criminal
trial. I went to prison for 2.5 years
because I criticized Humphrey. Now I am
criticizing Dr. D. Mark Snelson M.D. for his conduct. Hopefully, the right people will begin to
listen.
I'm sorry you're going thru this. It's not right at all and I feel for your children that's missing a father because of "putting the truth on the internet". It's stupid. In my boyfriend's order it says ' him or his wife shall refrain from posting anything related to this case, the child or the mother on any social media site. Failure to do so could result in contempt of court charges' because during one of their many many hearings I posted my "records" we have kept for years upon years that consisted of everything from text, voicemails, pictures, videos, legal documents etc and that in itself proved the mother had been absent and unfit and not going by the previous court order..they hated that I put the TRUTH out there for everyone to see, so they said it wasn't allowed..but I'm not his wife, we're not married so screw em, they should have worded it different.
ReplyDeleteI really hope you get to have much needed time with your children soon.
Family court is corrupt to the Max.
I myself have a son, when me and my x got divorced I did not ask for child support or any parenting plan, I simply said "as long as he is involved in our child life voluntarily, I don't want his money." The judge still made him pay child support and made it to effete he is supposed to only get every other weekend and every Wednesday with our son. We don't go by that order at all. When our son wants to see his dad, no matter if it's on a school night or not, I let him see his dad. I give him his money back also by giving him my child support card.
Why can't every mother think like me? Children NEED their fathers in their lives as much as their mothers..it should be mandatory 50/50 custody unless it's proven beyond a reasonable doubt, with actual proof, one or the other parent is mentally or physically unfit to have 50/50.
I support you as a woman, as a mother.
Thanks for sharing Rene and thanks for the support. Please email me at contactdanbrewington@gmail.com as someone contacted me who is interested in hearing more of your thoughts and perspective of the family court system. Looking forward to hearing from you. Thanks again.
Deletewhat they are doing is having u go thru a 730 evaluation then conclude ur unfit or poses a risk and deny u the right to see ur kids..I suggest recuse the judge, it sounds like ur in a small town, and possibly change venue. They r punishining u for speaking out. Have u seen the movie yet and comprehend what they r doing to u?
ReplyDeleteThousands spent and the guy doesn't even make a recommendation? Just says what he "suggested" to you? What a bunch of crap. Doesn't even state his findings! Unbelievable!!!! I'd call that unethical.
ReplyDeleteDan, I am going through a similar situation here in NJ. This is most severe form of punishment the state can dish out to loving fathers who only want to be with their children. I know you speak the truth in all your writings because many of them have happened to me. Keep posting and I hope someday soon you will be able to see your children again.
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